friends and the simplicity

Talking about friends must be very interesting..

Friends are people about whom I care. Friends of mine are people who know me well. I am not a kind of person who can easily get close with others. Even sometimes I need a long time to know others more.

In my life, I have some friends, a lot! So far, they are nice.. I used to have close friends in my kindergarten such as dyani, inez, lena, shinta, gayuh, riris, sisca, bebet, ivan, winny, kedit, tito, robert, putri, and many more. They were fun! I also had them in my primary school because most of the students in Kanisius Demangan Baru Kindergarten entered Kanisius Demangan Baru Primary School. Therefore, my friends were almost the same.. I had them with me for 6 years, and we still keep in touch with them right now.. Sooo nice!

Well, in Junior High School, I had five closest friends. They were desi, ressa, shinta, eka, and roshanti. We had a four-boy-guardian also. They were alex, angga, anggara, and dheni. We spent so much time together. We did bad and good things together.. great!

And.. In Senior high school I had my great friends too. It's a little bit different because they helped me to grow and to be wiser. All my friends are good. I have nine close friends (too many? hahaha). I had wening (called 'gwen'), lia, erna, linda, kiki, dewi, icha, anita, and vita. They are all crazy!hahaha

But I also had special friends besides them. They were ratna and tantri (sometimes with pipin, indra, and lukas)..

I have our picture here..

From left-right: ratna, tantri, me!
location: near Tantri's house-tegalan sawah

We are best friends and still, we try to keep in contact each other.

We share about anything.. They help me to grow up in Christ. They give me support to get closer with Jesus, my savior..

when the time comes..

Being single is a problem for many people...
But it doesn't happen to me,
I'm single in my 21 right now. So what? Some of my friends ever ask "Why don't you have someone in your life? A boy?"
Well, I just answer "Hmm,,let's see.." I wonder why, but I believe in God.
I know that HE knows me better than I know my self. That's why, I'm waiting for God's time..
I don't know for sure about who, when, or where 'the one' will come. But one thing which I know for sure is that everything must be nice according to HIM. Therefore, I'm praying to God while waiting for His time.

I think of that, and I realize that I must be better and better all the time. For this time, during my single period, perhaps I have to pay more attention to my study, to my family, and of course to my self.
Those need me so much more this time.. So, this is the best way for me right now..being single..

But when the right time comes, and it brings along 'the one' with it, then I will just let it happen. I won't reject.
No matter how and no matter why, I rely on God and I believe that God's planning is the best for those who believe in HIM. He promises that. He will never let His child alone and suffering.